The first and most important issue you have to deal with is parenting and childcare involved. You and the other parent need to agree on the following issues: To repeat it again, you can write your own marriage agreement with your spouse, but if you don`t have the capacity, you should hire your own lawyers – you can`t have the same lawyer. The lawyer should clearly explain your legal obligations and rights related to the assistance and custody of your property, children and alimony. . . .